HOW TO START A CONVERSATION WITH MEN

HOW TO START A CONVERSATION WITH MEN

BE CALM: Remember that you are just humans/people; they might be more nervous talking to you as you talk to them.

REJECTION: You won’t be able to connect with every man as you deep as you might think it will be, don’t expect to go deep with every ma you meet along your way.

START-UP: Think of an open topic to use and let things flow from their. Always have a back-up idea in case the opening line does not work as you plan.

Your start-up point (opening line) should all depend on where you meet him, what’s going on in that kind of vicinity or what you see him doing.

Hint: try having conversation with people you don’t know to have more confidence for instance: cashiers, waiters, teachers, security men and so on.

POINT OF APPROACH: maintain who you are, be confident by keeping your head up, make eye contact then drop a half smile. I suggest your starting point should be you, giving introduction and be sure to ask of their names. Men like to hear their own just like the ladies. (It arise a feeling in them).

Note:

Ø After a few minute drop a compliment so as to pull him close to you.

Ø People like to hear about themselves so try to talk about them or something you are interested in.

Ø Don’t ask close-ended questions rather ask open-ended questions.

Ø Take things further but avoid deep conversation till you persons know each other too well.

Ø Let the eye contact still be in flow.

CONCLUSION: If you find out that there is a common interest between you persons try and set-up a time to meet again.

Note:

Ø Don’t ask him for his contact directly, this is what you should do rather. Its nice meeting so how can I see you next time, then he will be contemplating then you should use that as an advantage, so why don’t you give me your contact information incase I want to see you.